“ I’ve been dating since I was 15. I’m exhausted. Where IS he? ”
This famous line, which Charlotte lamented to Carrie, Miranda and Samantha in Sex and the City, used to be my life.
I was single for over 20 years (give or take a few relationettes and situationships), lived and dated in 3 countries (Australia, Canada and the USA) and did 11 years of online dating across 7 dating sites and apps.
‘Where are all the good men?’
It’s a question I asked myself many times. After swiping through countless dating profiles, it’s clear my local area was a barren wasteland of Mr Wrongs. There was Mr No-Way, Mr Not-a-Chance and Mr Get-Real (to name a few). And whenever I WAS into a man, he almost always wasn’t quite as into me. Humph.
What was I doing wrong?
I was determined to figure it out. After absorbing copious amounts of dating advice via books, articles, podcasts, YouTube videos and online courses, investing in coaching with a top American dating coach, having a little counselling, and finally learning from my mistakes, I ended up making a few subtle yet powerful shifts in my approach to dating and relationships that I believe led to my success.
For instance:
❤ I stopped letting the sites, apps and losers run the show and started taking control of the dating process
❤ I stopped thinking so much with my heart and started thinking a little more with my head
❤ I turned skepticism and defensiveness into warmth and empathy no matter how many times I’d been hurt
Within 6 months, I met my husband, David.
And a few years later, we were married. I was 38 when we met and 42 when we got married.
There was no need to rush because we’d already decided not to have kids, so we took our time getting engaged and planning our dream wedding. Now, we have a home and two fur babies – Punky, the feisty French bulldog and Bicky, the snuggly black cat.
So, then what?
Sail off into the sunset with David and let all the valuable lessons I learned on my journey to love go to waste? Allow other women to struggle, suffer, or consider giving up the way I did? Heck no!
My mission was clear: To help women have a much quicker and smoother journey to Mr Right than I did.
My method was also clear: A unique ‘best friend’ approach in the form of an online community with a simple step-by-step system for finding Mr Right, 24/7 access to me to help you implement it and a professionally written dating profile. No more going it alone or trying to figure out this whole dating thing by yourself.
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💡 The secret to commitment (you’ll NEVER ask ‘Where is this going?’ again)
💡 The one simple thing you need to find love fast (no more fluffing around)
I also share my viewpoint on some controversial topics, such as being single Vs being in a relationship (this might surprise you), dealing with toxic men and why I work almost exclusively with women when men are the ones who need more help.
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