But if you’re a single woman looking for Mr Right today, you probably already knew that.

Never has it been so easy AND so hard to find someone to share your life with.

• We have incredible tools for finding love (dating apps, AI) but we don’t know how to use them
• We have an abundance of dating advice (it’s excessive) but we don’t know how to apply it
• We have dating gurus (coaches, matchmakers) but many are overpriced, ineffective, or both

Just as dating should be getting easier, it’s actually getting harder. That’s where I come in.

I was single for over 20 years (give or take a few relationettes and situationships), lived and dated in 3 countries (Australia, Canada and the U.S.) and did 11 year of online dating across 7 dating sites and apps before I FINALLY met my husband, David, online in our hometown of Sydney at the age of 38 and got married at 42. Phew! And you know what…

Looking back, it didn’t need to take so long or be so difficult. After a combination of counselling, coaching and learning from my mistakes, I made a few subtle yet powerful shifts in my approach to dating – and met David within 6 months. Now, I’m on a mission to help women have a much quicker and smoother journey to Mr Right than I did.

I’ve been featured and/or published in over 25 media outlets. I’m the author of the humorous dating advice book, Men Are Like a Box of Chocolates. And I work predominantly with Americans, so I charge in US dollars and operate on US time.

What if dating didn’t have to suck? What if you could date with confidence and finesse so you were able to find Mr Right ASAP and even enjoy the journey? Then allow me to introduce… The Un-Miserable Dating Method.

The five E’s of Elly’s non-gimmicky, annoyingly realistic Un-Miserable Dating Method are:

1. Expectations: Having realistic expectations of dating (it’s amazing what a few helpful mindset shifts can do)
2. Effective: Learning effective dating techniques (so you control the dating process rather than it controlling you)
3. Expert: Investing in expert dating support (if you have no one to turn to for guidance, you’re going to get stuck)
4. Effort: Making the effort to date effectively (no point in knowing what to do unless you do it and achieve results)
5. Enjoy: Actually getting to enjoy your dating journey (because if it’s making you miserable, you’re doing it wrong)

I’m sorry it’s not the ‘Quit Dating and Find Love’ Method, or the ‘He’ll Come Along When You Least Expect It’ Method, or the ‘No More Mr Wrongs Ever Again’ Method. If a popular dating method sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

If my Un-Miserable Dating Method has piqued your interest, you’ll love my 20-minute FREE TRAINING – Empowered AF: How to Find Mr Right Without Having to Change Yourself, Lower Your Standards or Waste Your Time. Just CLICK HERE for more info or scroll back up and enter your name and BEST email address (not the one you never check – wink, wink).